One Word at a Time

Journal with Pen


The ocean blue notebook is tattered and marred with scratches and stray ink marks on its cover. It started out as a surplus of school supplies for my son, tucked away and forgotten. Now, it holds the rocky story of my past year. A hard year spent in a bubble of depression. Inside this unassuming notebook’s shabby cover lies a hidden lifeline of language for a soul in need of solace and meaning. Blood, sweat, and tears in cursive.

The handwriting alone documents the highs and lows of that year. Some of the handwriting is beautiful and artistic with a hopeful flourish, while some is barely legible. The desperate scratchings of someone with tears streaming down her face, seeking shelter from the unexpected despair that gripped her. The ink smudged in random spots with tears now long-dried, but not forgotten.

Two of my favorite memories of childhood are sitting on my daddy’s lap while he read me a favorite book and spending lazy summer afternoons in the old two-story wooden house that was converted into our city library. An inviting place that enveloped me with its signature scent of aging paper and dusty ink. Curling up with the latest Nancy Drew book in the sunny spot by the bay window, I was transported to another world while my mom searched for her own books in the next room.

As it does for many young girls, my love of words extended into keeping a diary. A birthday gift, it was white with gold-foiled edged pages and had “My Diary” stamped on the cover in gold. The tiny lock and key it came with delighted me. I felt grown-up and important.

As life got busier, I no longer took the time to write in a diary. Yet, intuitively, I found my way back to writing as an adult during my onset of depression. At first, orderly words marched in obedient lockstep along the rigid, black lines. Somber and searching, the words purged out of desperation, no joy found there. Only a release as my hand moved across the page. The gliding of the pen on the page slowed my heartbeat and steadied my breath. As the weeks flowed by, measured in ink, my mood began to lighten. My words grew bold and playful, daring to stray outside the lines in the occasional arch floating above the margin in a rainbow of plans and dreams.

Today, my beloved notebook is swollen with printed confessions, great and small. It is a silent witness to a soul searching for and finding better days. A path laid down, thought by thought, out of the darkness into the light. Grief and joy balanced in the palm of my hand. That notebook, an old friend who reminds me that things can and do get better even when it feels the darkest.

Running Towards the Day

Mountaintop view

"Running Towards the Day" was published on the "Kind Over Matter" site. It is a beautiful place that encourages a positive lifestyle, one moment at a time. You can read it here: "Running Towards the Day".

Ben (Excerpt from Work in Progress)


Crayons, glue, paints

           Five-year old Ben Lambert was in love, and it made his stomach hurt. The peanut butter and strawberry jam sandwich he’d had for lunch was now a gummy knot tangled up with loopy butterflies when he looked at her. Why did grownups want to be in love? It just made you want to throw up.

            Still, his hand shot up when his teacher asked the class to name the letter she had written on the blackboard. It was the second day of kindergarten, and he wanted Mrs. Peele to like him and know that he could already read a bunch of words. Some of them even had five or six letters.

             Next to his mommy, Mrs. Peele was the prettiest lady he’d ever seen. The shiny black hair that draped past her shoulders reminded him of a black bird’s wing when the sun hit it. Her brown eyes were so dark they were almost black, and they crinkled at the corners like she had a happy secret to tell you. She looked like Pocahontas, which was one of his favorite movies. Her words floated out in a singsong way that made him feel friendly.

            Mrs. Peele pointed at him and said, “Yes, Ben. Can you name this letter?”

            Ben’s mouth went dry as nineteen heads turned to stare at him. The butterflies turned into somersaulting pterodactyls. The rustling of papers, tapping of pencils, whispers, and random squeaks of rubber-soled shoes on the linoleum floor that was the official music of Room 18 stopped as if someone flipped a switch. The complete silence pressed on him. The tops of Ben’s ears grew hot, and his tongue felt furry and too big for his mouth. Why did he raise his hand? Love or not. Dummy. He just hoped the P.B. & J stayed down.

            He peeled his tongue off the roof of his mouth, but his words dribbled out in dots and dashes.

            “I . . .i . . . it’s the l-l-let . . . ter B,” he stuttered.

            Kids laughed and hooted, and Ben clutched his brand new Fuzzy Wuzzy Brown crayon in his hand so hard it snapped. Heat fizzed up the back of his neck and prickled his scalp like ants let loose in his amber-colored hair. He scooted down in his blue chair, trying to disappear behind Jennifer What’s Her Name and her fountain of a ponytail topped with a giant, lop-sided purple bow.

            “All right, class. Let’s not laugh when someone is answering a question. That’s not nice. Sometimes, we get tongue-tied. You were right, the letter is B. Good job. Thank you for raising your hand like I asked and volunteering an answer,” Mrs. Peele said. She gave him a smile that made the pterodactyls disappear.

            Ben bent down and pretended to look for something in his pencil box on the little wire shelf underneath his chair so no one could see the tears that burned his green eyes. Sometimes his words didn’t come out right. There was even a real word for it. Tongue-tied. That was just what it felt like. Someone had lassoed his big, fat, furry tongue. He didn’t always stutter and mess up his words, but when it happened, others always made fun of him. Mommy said when he was nervous, his brain worked faster than his mouth, and he would grow out of it.

            Jennifer What’s Her Name turned to look at him as he sat back up. He swallowed and gave her a half-smile. Mommy always said to smile when you didn’t know what else to do. Jennifer stuck her slimy tongue out at him and whipped her mean red ponytail at him as she turned back around with a snap. Girls.

            Ben sighed and picked up the pieces of his Fuzzy Wuzzy Brown crayon and stuffed them in the front pocket of his tan cargo shorts. He hadn’t even gotten to use it yet. You couldn’t color trees or a good dog without it. The best color in the box. Well, next to Atomic Tangerine. At least he still had that one. Ben crammed the crinkled tail of his Batman t-shirt back into the waistband of his shorts where it had wiggled out and sat back down. He sure hoped the day got better.

            He wasn’t so sure about this school thing. It was more fun at the beach looking for sea glass with Mommy or in her art studio while she gave lessons. He was always good and quiet and got to watch the people learning how to paint. It was hard work being five. It was a good thing he would be six in nine more days. Every morning, Mommy crossed out each used up day on their Adorable Kittens calendar with a red Magic Marker for the countdown to the big day. Six had to be better than five. Maybe his tongue would work better then.

            Ben looked around the classroom with its red door, pale yellow walls, and colorful posters with dancing numbers and letters with happy faces and giant feet on them. It wasn’t too bad. They even had a class turtle named Shelly in an aquarium in the Quiet Time corner by the bathroom. Ben liked turtles. Turtles didn’t care if your words got jumbled up. He couldn’t wait for his turn to get to feed her. Then he sneaked a look at his new classmates. There were more girls than boys. Just his luck. His brows furrowed as he had a rotten thought. What if none of them wanted to come to his birthday party? What if he sat there with his Batman cake with the multi-colored sprinkles and the mint chocolate chip ice cream, waiting? Then he waited and waited some more until the ice cream started to melt, and no one showed up? The pterodactyls were back. Was it time to go home yet?

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            The tree didn’t look that high. It was a Madrone tree, like the ones sprinkled through the forest behind his house that his daddy had taught him about. It was Ben’s favorite kind of tree. Its cinnamon-colored bark could be peeled off in sheets like a fancy scroll of paper, and it had glossy green leaves. Sometimes, they had red berries on them. He bet he could climb this one, no problem. It was recess, and he wasn’t going to waste it waiting for someone to talk to him. This tree would be perfect to sit in and see all over the playground. He could be a pirate in the crow’s nest looking for enemy ships to plunder. With a bubble of excitement, he grabbed onto the smooth lower branch and planted his sneakered foot into the fork of the trunk and worked his way up the tree.

            “Hey, how did you get up so high?” a voice called out.

            Ben looked down to see two boys, their hands tented over their eyes as they looked up at him. Both of them were in his class, but he couldn’t remember their names. One had black hair, and one had hair almost the same color as Ben’s.

            “Well, my d-d-daddy says that I’m p-part monkey, so maybe that’s it,” Ben teased.

             Both boys laughed. The black haired one said, “You’re pretty good at it. Are you scared?”

            “Nah. I’m too busy being a pirate looking for ships to attack.”

            “I want to play,” said the amber-haired boy, “but I don’t want to climb up there. Will you come down, and we can play pirate on the monkey bars?”

            “Sure. I’m c-c-coming down. Wait for me.”

            “O.K., we’ll stay here until you get down.”



            Excited to play with them, Ben scrambled down the nearest branch. He was half-way there when he heard the sharp crack. The branch gave way and fell from underneath his foot, shifting his weight. The smooth bark slipped through his sweaty fingers. The air rushed out of his lungs as he bounced off the next branch and felt himself hurtling toward the ground. Headfirst.

Art Break: Art Journal/Doodles

As a writer, it's always helpful to enjoy other forms of art to inspire creativity. Art journaling and doodling are two favorites of mine. I'm also making a journal for my poetry. The protagonist of my current "WIP" is an artist, so it helps me to get into her head to take an artistic break.

Junk Journal 


Poetry journal

Doodled bird

Ink doodle

Book doodle in ink


Lullaby for the Unlovable

Homeless



A colorless weather hovers in this bleak place.
Bodies in the dark, an uncomfortable inconvenience to a lone passerby.
I go intact by mad miracle or perhaps, divine grace.
The gray sky lowers, the winter’s night opens its eye.
Lost sons and daughters sleep nearby,
Phantoms of failure. Society’s wasted lives.
Hush, forgotten ones, don’t you cry.
This little lullaby, how can it save them?

Stars a stupid confetti in a lidless room of concrete and sky.
Bits of burnt paper wheel across the blackness.
Teeth chatter among dusty, broken sighs.
Hunched in black on the periphery, a silent witness.
Who is this furious boy? Just one of many blended into the stillness.
Inhabitants of the night, faces with no features.
Hush, forgotten ones, don’t you cry.
This little lullaby, how can it save them?

The tongues of hell in his ears,
Voices a crackling static, like bad radio.
Broken puppet abandoned by the puppeteer.
Dirty, matted Jesus hair. His face turns, wordless and slow.
Had a god closed his eye and let him slip? An ambiguous shadow?
Human spirit condemned, not by deed or law, but indifference.
Hush forgotten ones, don’t you cry.
This little lullaby, how can it save them?

Daybreak


Ray of sunshine


In the first ray of light that ushers in day, there blooms my hope.
Unfurling as a bud seeking the sun.
Sparkling fingers of dawn push against the darkness.
Transferring its energy into a displaced heart.

Will She or Won't She?



Ray of sunlight

He sits on the cracked stoop brooding, expecting nothing at all.
The jagged blocks that make up the city fade away
as he sees her face, one in a crowd on 14th Street.
Filmy white sundress topped with a faded denim jacket.
The wild falling of her crimson hair threaded with stars.
Pink-cheeked girl. Curlicues and heart-dotted i’s.
She appears as summer’s child barefoot and free,
chasing his winter from him.
A deep wave carries him to shore
after the struggle to stay afloat.
Unwilling to watch this goddess go as sand,
slipping through his fisted hand,
he unfolds and follows, every nerve on fire.
Romance in the swell of her hips.
He shadows her step, by step, by step.
Hoping for a touch of the sun he remembers well,
before his life of shadow began.
Hope perches in his heart,
a softening that fills the void.
Will it be yes or no?

No Need to Say Goodbye

Wildflowers in field


I am in the birdsong on the wind,
I am in the whisper of the butterfly’s wing,
I am in the star of silver that jets across the night sky,
I am in the shadow of the new moon,
I am in the reflection of light that dances across the ceiling,
I am in the bubble of laughter from the happy baby,
I am in the outstretched hand of a stranger,
I am in the downpour of the quick summer storm.

I am in the soft gurgle of the river as it flows,
I am in the songs of the gentle giants of the sea,
I am in the foamy break of the waves,
I am in the rhythm, patterns, coincidences, and signs,
I am in the caress of the breeze against your cheek,
I am in the burst of movement of the crisp, fallen leaves,
I am in the syrupy warmth of the first summer night,
I am in the deep glow of the flickering firelight.

I am in the wildflower on the overgrown country path,
I am in the stillness of the silence,
I am in the energy of the joyful noise,
I am in the awakening you embrace,
I am in the lovely moments that comfort you.

I am no longer bound inside a cage of bones
in this flesh and blood world.
I am of earth and sky, my spirit free to dance along the golden horizon
and nest in the deepest blue of the galaxies.
A season unto itself.

Still, my spirit nestles in your tender heart.
Sustained by your smiles and blessed by your laughter.
Kept alive in your memories until we meet again upon the fulfillment of time.

Confession of a Neat Freak


Coffee cup with book

As a bit of a "neat freak", it's time to come clean (ha) and confess there are some messes that don't bother me much at all. In fact, I secretly love them.
They are the beautiful messes that make our house a home.

Hygge (n/vb.) /HOO-gah/ is the Danish word for the concept of coziness. The art of creating a warm atmosphere by enjoying the good things in life with good people. Yes, sometimes that can get a bit messy, but such is the beauty of life. In all its dusty, sloppy glory. Occasionally, it's ok to have that second cup of coffee while scrolling through pictures of gardens in Paris on Pinterest instead of dusting the top of the refrigerator.

Beautiful Messes I Secretly Love:
  1. Dirty dishes from a homemade holiday meal scattered all over the table and counter tops.
  2. Muddy little paw prints on the kitchen floor. (O.K., maybe not so cute RIGHT after I've mopped.)
  3. Silky tufts of cat hair at the foot of the bed. 
  4. Flower petals from a thoughtful bouquet dusting the coffee table.
  5. An untidy stack of unread books waiting for me beside the bed that keep falling over. My personal game of Jenga.
  6. A pile of fragrant, still warm laundry waiting to be folded. (Bonus points if there's not a cat curled up in them.)
  7. Bed head and puffy eyes after a truly good sleep. (Not so crazy about the sheet marks on my face, however. They are staying longer and longer these days. That's just cruel if good "face smashed in your pillow" sleep causes wrinkles. *Sigh*)
  8. Snowfall of flour left in the kitchen after the baking of favorite treats.
  9. That favorite candle burned down to a goopy, sooty nub. The little broken stubs of wick float around in the melted wax like tiny black boats bobbing in the ocean. Oddly relaxing to watch. 
  10. Half-empty coffee mugs left next to the newspaper on a lazy Sunday. 
  11. Smudges of paint left over on my creative fingers.
  12. The colorful tangle of wrapping paper mixed with empty (or cat-filled) boxes on Christmas morning. 
  13. The blanket on the ottoman that clearly belongs to the dog.
  14. Crumbs from the latest birthday cake dotting the counter top.
  15. Autumn leaves piling up in the yard.

I hope you take the time to enjoy the beautiful messes in your life too. :)